This sort of Situation arises from the Human need for love, and Allowing one's self to fall in love thinking it will come out good, many times its simply a matter of an uncontrolled mind.
1. Self-Contentment is very hard to attain but very important, learn to be happy with yourself, not needing other people, get hobbies, read books, study things, that kind of stuff, the less you NEED people the happier you will be with yourself and in relationships. Build Self-Confidence, and Self-Contentment. That way you won't need someone, and you will be albe to find the right person, and even when you do fall in love it will work out better.
2. Control your love, Reason before Emotion I always say. Before you allow your mind to wonder into the LALA land of love, think it through very carefully first, people say you cannot control who you fall in love with, thats not true, if you discipline your self you have full control. That way you won't fall in love with someone that won't return the love, only with people that will be worth it.
Those 2 factors are very very important, and will hopefully help a lot. They make life way easier.
posted by: gacky on 2006-01-17 09:39:17
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